Points for Effort in the Marriage Equality Cases?

The oral arguments in the Seventh Circuit case involving the marriage statutes in Indiana and Wisconsin sounds like they were extremely uncomfortable for those states’ attorneys general. In a way, I feel bad for the two attorneys who had to argue the case, but then again, they were trying to steer an obviously sinking ship. Ed Brayton posted some highlights from the hearing. This bit between the judges and Indiana Solicitor General Thomas Fisher seems like the trial advocacy equivalent of being rapped on the hand with a ruler:

JUDGE POSNER: “You allow the homosexual couples to adopt. Why don’t you want their children to have the same advantages as children adopted by heterosexual couples?”

FISHER: “The question is what can we do to nudge heterosexual couples who may produce children, you know, unintentionally to plan for this—to plan for the consequences and appreciate the consequences of sexual behavior. Those consequences don’t arise with same-sex couples. It’s not in the context of adoption that marriage—”

JUDGE POSNER: “But you’re not answering my question. You’ve got millions of adopted children, and a lot of them—200,000 or more—are adopted by same-sex couples. Why don’t you want their children to be as well off as the adopted children of heterosexual couples?” Continue reading

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Living in Hell

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Source: Reuters, via Buzzfeed

BuzzFeed published a couple of photo sets recently about marriage equality in Washington state and elsewhere:

20 Photos That Could Change Someone’s Mind About Gay Marriage

and

60 Moments That Gave Me The Chills During Seattle’s First Day Of Marriage Equality

I admit that there was a time when I did not understand the marriage equality issue. I didn’t see why it was such a big deal. Quite a few people still oppose allow people to marry the consenting adult of their choice. They cite many reasons, all of them ultimately indefensible. But that’s not why I’m writing this today.

Look at the pictures at these links. Look at the people who have spent decades waiting for the society in which they live to accept their love as worthy of recognition.

Source: Meryl Schenker/ZUMAPRESS.com, via BuzzFeed

Source: Meryl Schenker/ZUMAPRESS.com, via BuzzFeed

If you can look at these pictures, and see the joy that is so much in evidence, and yet you still maintain that limiting marriage to your particular view of it is more important than their happiness, then I have nothing kind to say to you.

Honestly, I want to tell you to go to hell. But I won’t.

If you look at these faces full of love, of lifelong commitments finally brought out of the shadows to show that they are no different than what society has deemed “normal” after all, and you still believe that your world is somehow under threat, then it is clear to me that you are already living in a hell of your own making.

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Shame on you, North Carolina (among others)

'New York City Proposition 8 Protest outside LDS temple 20' by David Shankbone (David Shankbone) [CC-BY-SA-3.0 (www.creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0) or GFDL (www.gnu.org/copyleft/fdl.html)], via Wikimedia CommonsI know many people from the state of North Carolina, and I know them all to be kind, decent, caring, generous people. I’m not sure how many of them still live there, if any, but I’m sorry if they have to live among that kind of bigotry. Of course, it’s not like Texas is much better.

A representative of the principle supporter of the amendment had this to say:

Tami Fitzgerald, chairwoman of Votes for Marriage NC, the main group behind the amendment, said: “We are not anti-gay, we are pro-marriage. The whole point is you don’t rewrite the nature of God’s design for marriage based on the demands of a group of adults.”

Apparently, however, she does get to marginalize an entire group of people who have done her no wrong, based on the demands of her group of adults (emphasis added because I’m furious). Not only that, but this amendment may have much a much farther-reaching impact than people seem to realize. It could affect more than just those icky gay people (that’s how I imagine Tami Fitzgerald phrasing it, anyway). I have no words for the supporters of this amendment that don’t include “rectums” and “rusty pitchforks,” so I shall turn to the words of friends and people whom I admire. Continue reading

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